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Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

This makes so much sense! I still think, "R would love that joke, I must tell him" ~ I've a neural pathway associated with humour with my brother who died a while back. Another brother died last year and those same thoughts and associations aren't there at all. I enjoyed this piece.

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Laura Perkins's avatar

Thank you, Danusia! I’m so glad you enjoyed it, the neuroanatomy of grief is a newer field of research and I’m eager to see what they discover next.

My brother also died recently. This morning I thought, “Eric will get a kick out of this!” Sometimes those moments stop my heart with grief, but today, I smiled at the thought of him smiling at what I would have shared.

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